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writes:I'm 33 yr old single mother of 3 boys.I been threw 7 yrs of a bad marriage divorced 10 yrs now.It made me stronge and cold. My problem is i dated a guy for 3 yrs,we broke up and he went nuts.One nite he went crazy trying to find me back and forth he drove he finally was pulled over and handcuffed put in cop car for dwi.But he escaped the man hunt began,he was found passed out in my bed afew min before i came home.he served almost 4 yrs and was released a week ago.Everyone tells me to watch my back,i try not to worry but find myself nervous and jumpy.i guess its not a ? just needed to vent my inner fears.
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reader, Use2bstronge +, writes (9 October 2009):
Use2bstronge is verified as being by the original poster of the question I'm so overly surprised that I got so many responses,I wanted to give a BIG THANK YOU 2 everyone. I will take in all advice anything 2 keep my kiddo's safe...Thank U AgaIn...
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reader, tomtom1 +, writes (7 October 2009):
I second all of what the other posters said.An amazing confidence booster is always having a weapon available for home defense. The Mossberg 500 is an affordable shotgun for home defense, go for a 20 gauge if you can't handle a 12ga. I strongly recommend you take this route, if you do please make sure you learn how to use the weapon properly and store it safely. (you mentioned you had children)
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2009): Assuming that he's not the sperm doner for any of the 3 kids, you shouldn't have to see him. I'd suggest that you consider chaning up your pattern from what he knew... change phone #'s, email, your actual living place (if practical), tell the right folks at work... with any luck he doesn't associate his arrest with you...
If he shows up, I'd get a restaining order immediatly, and create a protective network for yourself... feinds, family, people you can trust. It might be a good idea to create a "plan B" if you see him... a safe place to go, and a way to get your kids there if they're not with you.
Sorry you have a nut case in your life... hopefully 4 years of being locked up have given him some time to figureout that he needs to become a responsible adult. My ex-wife was a nut, and I still worry that one day she'll show up, totally pissed off... so far so go, but I know how it feels to have a panic attack when you see someone who MIGHT be your ex...
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