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writes:What should I respond to a text from my ex who came into town. I had texted him telling him "We shouldn't see each other when you're in town". He replied with "ok bye." Then two hours later he texted me with a booty call text basically. I have yet to respond. What should I say or is it better to say nothing?
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (18 February 2011):
 My pleasure.
OP, why even ask? You answered your own question. You didn't want to see him, so why respond to a booty call?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2011): Thanks Dirtball, i have noticed there are dual posts.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (18 February 2011):
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-i-respond-or-is-silence-golden-in.html
For reference.
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reader, Eilish  +, writes (18 February 2011):
 Say nothing. This way you won't get hurt OR used. xxx
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reader, virman  +, writes (18 February 2011):
Just ignore him, if you reply you let him see your weakness and he is bound to use it to his advantage.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (18 February 2011):
 Ignore him. Totally.
He was boorish to text you after what you had told him, then again maybe he did not quite get the message because it was not strong enough. When you say "we should not see each other etc... " he gets " we should not, because it's wrong,... but I am weak enough to yield to your pressures and do it anyway ".
If you had texted him " I am definitely not interested in meeting up again ", - it would have been better.
Anyway, why now wasting time in verbal sparring and a text battle of wits ?. Just keep ignoring him, and he'll go away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2011): You'de only be repeating yourself, so I'de say nothing.
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