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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:When I was at school, there was an out teacher. We got on well but I haven't spoken to her since I left, I was 16 then but I haven't seen her since. I felt that we had a good friendship at the time however it has been 5 years since I left. I don't know whether I should reach out? I am out too and I know she knew that at the time.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts +, writes (12 May 2019):
 Let her go. Move on. She’s a happy memory of friendship, but she’s what was good for you then, not necessarily now. She’s moved on and you need to now too.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (12 May 2019):
 Just because you two have the same sexual orientation doesn't mean you share anything else in common or that SHE is at all interested.
Why on Earth should you chase her down now? For what purpose?
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reader, Youcannotbeserious +, writes (12 May 2019):
 I think you need to be clear WHY you are looking to reconnect with this lady. What would your purpose be in reaching out to your ex teacher? Are you wanting a friend? Are you looking for a mentor? Are you looking for a closer relationship? Just because she is gay and you got on well as teacher and pupil 5 years ago, does not necessarily mean there is any future for you two, be it as a couple or as friends.
If you really want to make contact with her, I would take things very slowly and casually. Perhaps contact her to ask how she is doing and thank her for being friendly with you when you were at school. If she doesn't push to keep in contact, then you need to leave it and walk away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2019): Be whatever but Friendship with lesbian Will not help u much keep an eye on her and just enjoy
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