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writes:Ok, so I need some help. I'm 21 years old and just got a job at my school 2 months ago to help out another teacher with some things. I work in an office house, where there are 6 or 7 teacher offices. I work in the kitchen, so when teachers pass they'll always pass by my office. Most of the teacher who come in and out of there say "hey, how are ya?" or, something like that, but there's one teacher that says a lot more to me. We'll call him, Mr. Cuban, since in fact, he is from Cuba. Haha. Well, it all started one day when I was making copies for the teacher I work for, and he had come down to make copies as well. He said to me, I see you're taking Spanish. In order for him to know that, he must have been snooping through my things in the kitchen, because my book was not visible unless you pulled my purse off of it. Anyways, we talked about my goals and ya know, normal stuff, but then all of a sudden, he said, "you're very pretty." It just caught me off guard, but I let it go. Then, all of a sudden, he would stop by my office and talk to me every chance he got, and he said to me, you can come by my office anytime and we can have a small talk. I was ok with that, but then it got to the point where he was flirting way too hard. He came into my office a few days ago, and asked me what I liked to do in my spare time, and I told him, and then he said "you know you can come see me anytime", and I said ok, and then he was like "you look beautiful", and left.But what takes the cake, is that on Wednesday, he came to see me, and said I should come see him sometime, he's already hinted at that 3 times, lol. Then, he asked me to have lunch with him, and he said "make sure you keep this private, I don't want anyone to know that you're special", and he winked at me. I couldn't believe it. I told him I couldn't have lunch with him though, because I had an appointment the next day, so I couldn't make it. He tried so hard to pick a perfect time where we could meet. So, I wrote him a note and said we could Thursday before my appointment. I went to his office on Thuraday and he told me he had appointments with students, so he couldn't do it that day. I was crushed, but I decided to get some lunch at the student union. Then, all of a sudden, I see him wandering around that area, and he came up to me, and said "I have an appointment at 1, but it should only last about 15 mins, so do you want to meet after that"? I said sure, but unfortunately his appointment lasted longer than that, so I had to leave because my appointment was at 2. That night I wrote him an email asking him if he was flirting with me, and I was also flirting with him. I wanted to make sure that I wasn't just either misreading what he said, or that I was in fact correct, that he was flirting with me.He replied, and said he was flirting with me, and that he wanted to see me after work on Wednesday. He also said to email him at his private email, and that I looked hot, and he wants to fill the sky with fireworks with me. Lol. He also said he looks forward to making this happen. Well, I found out he's married and has two kids. I don't want to be messing around with a man in his 30s, who's married, and has two kids. Also, a lot of the girls at the school are in love with him, and say he's a great guy, and they wish they could be him and stuff, but I don't know, maybe he's just a player. It's not like I want to be the one who ruins his marriage, along might get caught with messing around with a married man. Ughh. Please help. Wednesday is only 3 days away. :/
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reader, ElectricSheep +, writes (25 April 2010):
 Don't get involved with a man that is married and has kids!!! It also feels like he might be doing this with other pretty girls he meets. Sort of like, "if she says no, I'll find another." The fact that he's married (and has children!), yet he's flirting and asking to go on dates with other girls is disturbing. If he wanted to see you for work that would have been alright, but he wants to "fill the sky with fireworks" with you. A married man should be doing that to his wife! Please stay away for your sake, and his wife and children.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (25 April 2010):
 You answered yourself. You don't want to be messing around with a man in his 30's ,married with children. Plus, it it comes out it could cost you your jobs.
Cancel your Wednesday date.
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