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writes: Hello all im new to this site and im really in need of some advice. I recently looked up a girl i dated when i was 15 and we fell hard for each other but the sad thing is she moved a short time later while we were together and then i seen her again when i was 18 by chance and we still felt the same for each other. Now it's been 14yrs and not for one day i have never forgot her and thought about her every chance i got and i have told her this in an email. She's excited i found her im single and she's single i dont know if fate or karma has given me another chance to do the right thing for us to be together or what but i wanted to know should i play it cool and see what happen's or just forget it? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, LauraE +, writes (2 July 2007):
Absolutely no question. You are both single, you are both excited by this – what is there to stop you? Fear of it not working? That applies to every relationship. Think how much you will regret it if you let this chance slip by. If it doesn’t work out, at least you will know you tried and have no regrets. Life is much, much too short for regrets about what might have been. Waste no more time - call her today.
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (2 July 2007):
I with everyone else on this. Go for it , theres no reason not too. Good luck!!
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reader, Keykee +, writes (2 July 2007):
you already knew the answer to this ,before u even asked, u have every intention of going for it and I wish u luck, story of a similar experience I seen my first love a couple days ago, talked for at least a hour and then he was gone. I always thought about him seen him a couple times before and we hooked up only to realize we both had change and we were better off friends,but as I said I wish u luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2007): You're both single so i would definitely go for it! How sad that you've been apart for so long but it's great that you've got a chance to be together again so what reason is there to not go for it?
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (2 July 2007):
If I were you, I would go for her. 'Tis better to have loved and lost...
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