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male
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes: PLEASE REPLY SOON! Well I went to a party back in May, and started to talk to this girl that I had briefly met before, and we sort of acted as if we were going out(SHE kissed ME etc), but neither of us asked eachother out, and I left the party and then nothing else happened for about 3 months, but now I REALLY like her but we barely ever see eachother. I met her in my local town about a month ago, but I really didn't see her for very long and we barely got to talk. And just today, My friends devised and composed a text that they thought would work, which consisted of : "Hey, I know we haven't really spoken much since that party but I really like you, and I wanted to know if you would ever consider going out with me? x". So my friends sent that to her with my consent, and I got a call very soon after, which went like this: "Hi, it's *****"so I said "Oh hai :)" She said: "I just got a text from you, is it true?"so I said "Oh, well my friends have had my phone recently, what did it say? I'm really sorry :(""Oh it said about the party...""Oooohhhh right I'm very very sorry :("She said "No, it's fine don't worry"............Me: "Yeah I'm sorry about that, I might see you soon?" "Yeah hopefully, cya :)"Which was obviously inconclusive. Should I phone her now and explain myself??!?!!! PLEASE REPLY SOON!!!
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (6 November 2010):
Relax, call her..there's no need to explain yourself. Just act like nothing happened. Ask her out for this weekend while you're at it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2010): Cheers guys, I'll give it a try :) I have to add that she said (not to me) that she would prefer a boyfriend who is older than her, and she is older than me. And to justify why I lied in the phone call, I panicked. We all do, right? ;)
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reader, dannigirl1628 +, writes (6 November 2010):
CALL HER she definitely wants to hear from u :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2010): You should call her and ask her on a date. It seems to me that you would have to make the first move. If you really want this to happen, then thats what you have to do.
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male
reader, Jmtmj +, writes (6 November 2010):
If she wasn't at least somewhat interested then she wouldn't have called you... Ring her dude :)
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reader, Blod +, writes (5 November 2010):
Yes! Phone her!
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reader, JustTheWayYouAre +, writes (5 November 2010):
CALL HER!
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reader, petina1 +, writes (5 November 2010):
yes, phone her and get the conversation going. Sounds like you could have a girlfriend by the end of the call. Don't waste time reading this,,, phone her. Good Luck!
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