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Lack of intimacy has made me attracted to a girl at work!

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Question - (13 August 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 13 August 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

hi all, been with my gal for three months!!! im kind caring loving, not pressurising in anyway, but just latley im feeling more frustrrated with the lack of intimatcy!!! now i love my gal alot and want to take the next step in the relationship, the other problum is this girl at work has come back and before i got with my currant girl i had feelings for this work collague!!! she came back yesterday and my feeling came flooding back, this girl has made it clear we are close friends but not much more. im very confused and my new gal has accused me of cheating just tonight but i know its just old feelings coming back. im stuck cos if i explain this to my gal she will dumo me, how do i get out of this situation without hurting my gal and myself. any help will do.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2008):

Well if this colleague has told u that ur just friends where is problem?

U g/f can’t stop u likening someone else and if she has a problem with not being able to control ur feelings dump her.

Un-less u’ve made a move on that colleague whist u were with her then she has every reason to be pissed at u…dosent she?

& maybe u should express ur feelings of frustration over ur sex life to ur g/f?

U cant fix a problem u don’t know is there!!

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