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writes:I just asked out a girl who i like very much, we have been going out for about a week now, ive heard from her that she likes me the same way. Yet she seems like she doesnt like me, and that shes imbarreses or nervous, I think she doesnt like me, and i dont want to loose her, what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2009): Just be reassuring when it seems like it would be a good thing to do.
Feel comfortable in spite of how she's feeling.
Point out where you'd like to take her for the next date. Point out the quirky things about her that like (if you do like them).
Point out things that you find to be funny, or make her laugh
Have fun!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2009): It's only been a week, give each other some time for the relationship to grow. Some relationships work and some don't, obviously, so don't think about the future of your relationship just yet but cherish every moment of it right now. You can't keep her if she decides to leave you, but what you can do it focus on creating memories. Some people are too focused on being afraid someone is going to leave them and they forget to live with that person in the moment and end up subconsciously drifting apart. My ex did that because he was so into me that he forgot he was dating me so I felt as if I was dating myself because most of the time he's occupied with the notion that he might lose me. If you allow your mind to focus on actually being with her and not the possibility of losing here, your relationship will be more desirable. Be with her as if she's going to be with you. Optimism is contagious so if you start, hopefully she'll feel it too. Good Luck! :-)
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