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writes:Why is it that everytime we go out clubbin, my less atrractive overweight friend gets the girls at the end? Sure he settles for lesser than what I would but its not my standards thats the problem. Its happening continually. Im not a bad looking guy at all I dont get it, Im outgoing, not that shy..etc..Its annoying me now - I always seem to read the signals but Im always wrong - I know what they are yet I seem to misread obviously with girls. I guess Im just asking for a explanation and some help. I know some people may think its sad asking here but its my only choice.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (19 August 2008):
 Hi,
Girls like a guy with a sense of humour and a bloke who can be himself and act naturally. If you can make a girl laugh, you are infinitely more desirable than the rest of the guys out there hitting on girls.
So your friend undoubtedly is able to be more relaxed around girls, but don't fret, with time you will start to relax more and just remember to be yourself and don't get all serious with a girl when you meet her.
Remember practices makes perfect, the more girls you chat with the easier it will become to be yourself. Start talking to girls without the intention of picking them up, that way you don't put any pressure on yourself and you can have a good time without worrying whether they are into you or not.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2008): well, maybe he's nicer about it. don't get me wrong, you're probably a great guy, but i gotta say, most girls like nice guys.
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reader, chloe71z  +, writes (19 August 2008):
 Your still young with age comes experience. Trial and error like the rest of us. Mabie your looking in the wrong place for girls. Stop looking and trying so hard. The right girl will come along when you least exspect it. let me give you an example.
I was working for a pizza place up north and I needed a babysitter one day and she offered to watch my child for me when I got there her husbands best friend had just shown up. I told her husband take care of my baby and before he could even answer his best friends jumped in and said I'll take care of her. I just kinda went aaaahhhhhhh a man who actually cares, and likes children. We talk i little over the next couple of days and we decided to date and we have been together for going on 7 years now. Like I said you will find the right girl whe you least exspect it. I was looking for a babysitter and found a husband instead.
I really wish you the best and God bless
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