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writes:Should I make appointments for a day of relaxation for both of us? Or is it too much too soon? Okay, so I've been in a relationship with this great guy (6 months dating). Anyways, we planned a weekend get-away..and I just thought 'Hey, why not book appointments for us to get couple's massage.' But the whole thing is..I'm on a budget!! He already paid for the rooms and I'll pay for most of the things we do out there. It sounds fair! But have not mentioned the day spa. Should I tell him.. I told him last night..'remember I have expenses out here so let's not get carried away now.' And he was understanding. What should I do? Should I just wait a few more months to do this? The reason I thought of this is because he's been stressed out and what a better way to get rid of all this?!?I want to go thru with it, but not on top of the expenses out there! Reply to this Question
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (2 July 2009):
 Looks like an ask first to me. BTW Starlights has it right Touching builds a bond. The scientific research backs it up. The couple that showers together stays together. I do the massaging in our marriage.
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reader, citic101  +, writes (2 July 2009):
 If you dont mind paying for it I would say sure why not
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reader, Legioness  +, writes (2 July 2009):
 Have you looked around for the cheaper places and options? It really does sound like a lovely thing for you both to do :) but do whatever you can afford, even if it's just a manicure each i'm sure he'd appriciate it just as much as the works, hypothetically speaking :) at the end of the day, if you think he's worth the money then screw it, go all out and have the times of your lives, or nevertheless, as I said, i'm sure he'd appreciate anything you do together just as much :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2009): Why not explore and massage each other? This is guaranteed to relieve your stresses!
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reader, Starlights +, writes (2 July 2009):
 if your partner is stressed out why dont u massage him yourself? buy some essential oils, and get him to lie on the bed, semi naked, and massage his whole body (from head to feet) and play some relaxing music in the background.its not only will save u money but help relax him as well.i always do this for my husband when he tenses up, and it works a treat! plus it helps to bond you more as a couple.u can have ur break away + he gets a free massage!good luck!
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