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female
age
36-40,
*ranhquy
writes:I have just broke up with my boyfriend for one week. I'm very sad now, i can't make up my mind. Please give me your advices. It's not the first time we braek up. Im usually the one that said goodbye first cuz i didn't feel he cared for me much. Everytime he wanted to get back he said he loved me so much,but he's busy, so he didn't have time to hang out with me. When we broke up, he usally " begs" me for returns. But this time, he said he's tired, he needs time, he doesnt' keep our relationship any longer.He said that's all my fault. He said " you can cry and smile at the same time, just like an actor, i'm scared you know" I think he hates me. I was so sad that I did some stupid things like crying, begging, watching what he's doing on his facebook, texting,..he told me aweful and disrespecting words that hurt me so much. I can't believe it, and last night he told me go get a paper and pen, he spelled the word" stalker" to me. he said" you know waht does it mean right, i don't want you to turn to be a stalker" I'm really hurt, I can't believe it, I think he's very bery very bad, don't you think so. But i still love him, should i keep loving him when he treats me so bad like this. Does him love me, but if he loves me, why he hurts me like this. There are so many questions i can't answer. Please tell what i should do now. And how i know if he still loves me. I truly appreciate your time and advices.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (4 January 2010):
No, he doesn't love you, or he'd be with you. He's playing with you. You need to cut contact for your own good and move on. He's not really treated you well, and has said you're a stalker, so he's telling you to back away. Leave him and move on.
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