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male
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anonymous
writes:Hi,I'm 22 years old and still a virgin. One of the reasons for this is that I have a complex about my penis. It's slightly twisted and has a small curve in it. I was wondering if this would be something that would put girls off or that they would find weird or unattractive. Do you think that girls would be ok about my penis? I mean, I like it the way it is but I'm just afraid of how a potential girlfriend might react to it. Should I talk to a doctor about this because it's really something that bothers me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2008): Dude,
My penis is shaped like a banana and women LOVE IT because it hits their G spot.
Get over it and go make some ladies happy.
Obviously you do have an issue with your penis or you would not be a virgin one and two you would not be asking a question about it on the internet.
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reader, kittikat  +, writes (22 May 2008):
 Honestly, it sounds like it might even add to the sensation that a woman would normally feel during intercourse. I can't imagine someone complaining about it, and like mentioned before if she does, than she's not worth sharing your body with ;-) I'm not a guy, so I don't know how much validity my next commment is, but...It may cause you discomfort or pain- I doubt it though. If it does, when you do have sex, you should see a doc for advice. Different positions may also help. The important thing is that YOU like it...Confidence trumps just about all physical flaws with a mature individual. Just relax and let nature do it's thing. We're all made differently and that's what makes life awesome!
Good luck!
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reader, Emaz help +, writes (22 May 2008):
 it's normal
but if you do feel really uncomfortable about this then maybe the duvet would help your confidence?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2008): its completely normal. the guy im with now has a bend at the end of his penis and i can asure it you, it works just right!!!
no girl should be grossed by this, and if she is, then shes the one with the problem, not you sweetie!!! good luck:)
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reader, PeterPan +, writes (21 May 2008):
 You are never going to find a row of guys, standing around comparing their erect penis shapes and lengths; it will never happen... but, if it did, you're going to find that there is a whole world of different shapes, sizes, lengths, widths, twists and bends. Every man has it... there's nothing to be the slightest bit ashamed of or even to be concerned about. For every male face, I guarantee there's a difference in their penises.
Further, I can not imagine some future lover of yours being repulsed, find you weird or unattractive. If you would like to, speak with your doctor, but I think he might say the same thing. Here's a link I came across that might help. You are no more a freak than any other man on the planet!
http://www.kinseyconfidential.org/2007/10/24/qa-is-it-normal-to-have-a-bend-in-your-penis/
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2008): Hey, don't worry, a curve or a bend is very normal. I knew one fellow who's penis stuck straight out then bent down halfway. As long as it works, and you know what to do with it and how to please a woman with other parts of you, like your fingers and lips and tongue, you have nothing to worry about. And you can figure out what your future girlfriend and you like together, so don't worry about that either!
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