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writes: hey, I recently posted a question on here about 2 days ago.. well I have another problem with "j", well first off for those who dont know, I am dating this boy named "j" and he's so sweet and kind. He's a sophmore and I am in my last year of middle school.. well we've known each other for about a month and he's the nicest boy I think I've ever met... I gave him a hug on Friday but he asked for a kiss on Monday (on the cheek) should I do it, I mean I want to kind of but I don't want a reputation, because I am the farthest thing from slutatious... my previous question had stuff about things my cousin said about him, his reply was that he won't hurt me and that he hopes I can trust him, so I think he's a pretty sincere guy, but I don't want to seem slutty, please help with another problem, with love xox
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reader, rcn +, writes (10 September 2007):
Giving a kiss on the cheek is not slutty. You two are dating, its normal to have some affection toward the person you are dating. Now if you stopped to give every guy is school a quick peck as you pass them in the haul, that might be viewed as being slutty.
It's up to you if you're ready to give that kiss. If you're wondering if your reputation will be ruined, I doubt it. That would be one real tough area you live in if it did.
Take care
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