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writes:iam so lost i think im still in love with my ex-wife we have been spending the past two months together note she is currently separated and filing for divorce from her new husband now we just got divorced back in june and she remarried a couple months later.my mind is so confused we have children together
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reader, roadman  +, writes (1 January 2009):
 Nothing wrong with you at all, you're not confused, your 100% right, you're still in love with her, if you were married and had kids it's likely you always will love her, you have kids together so now you have the change to be a happy family again the way it should be, just respect each other this time around and don't make the same mistakes that broke the family down the 1st time..
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2009): It is understandable that you are confused. It's a very confusing situation, and obviously you still both have feelings. As the other Aunts have said, take it really slow. It could be a case of not being able to be without a partner and so she is running back to you. It's okay for you to be there for her. But don't rush into anything. Give her time to process everything that has just gone on with the other marriage, and divorce. On the positive side...it's good for the children to see you both getting along!
Just take one day at a time and enjoy each others company. Include the kids in most of your activities, and be a family before you become "reunited lover."
I wish you the best and very Happy New Year!
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reader, Flawless29 +, writes (1 January 2009):
You are not lost you are just speaking what you fill in your heart and there is nothing wrong with that. I believe true loves never die no matter what happened in the relationship. If you are both spending time together than something is going on that the both of you are feeling. First, of all why did she get married so fast anyway? Did the both of you do everything it took to make sure the marriage worked out. Think things through and just take it slow just see how things go and examine everything carefully before you do anything that you will wish you did not do.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (1 January 2009):
 I think she is bouncing from man to man. Why did the two of you divorce in the first place?
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