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writes:i have a problem i could use some advice on. i am 18 and i have been best mates with my best mate for 11 years....... we went to her 33 year old uncles house (who i have fancied for a long time) a couple of months ago and we had to stay there cos we got drunk so i could not drive home. my mate went to bed and left me and her uncle together talking. we had been flirting all night and he came on to me like i thought he would, and we had sex. in the morning i woke up at 6am and went down stairs got on the sofa and fell asleep so when my mate came down she thought i was there all night. we went home without waking her uncle. the next day she asked me if anything had happened between me and him i said no and completely denied it. my mate later asked him about that night and he said that nothing happened, which i was fine with and we both decided that it should not have happened and that it would never happen again so that my best mate would not be upset. but every time i see him he comes on to me and we end up in bed. i don't know what to do. i want to keep on doing it cos i like him and i think he likes me. i don't care about the age gap, but i don't want to hurt my mate. what do i do ?????????
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reader, leonard j.Douglas  +, writes (30 July 2007):
IF being Best Mate With your Best Mate is also of a sexual nature."Note",I said If, Then to be making-out with her Uncle would also be classified as Relational-Infidelity, with a few little,white lies thrown in. You may be throwing away an eleven year relationship for perhaps a dead-end, flash-in-the-pan, go no where relationship. How do you think your Best Mate is going to feel? When you both lied to her. Glad your not my friends.
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (30 July 2007):
 Well i would say go for it. But shes your friend and you will have to tell her about it.
And i think she will have a problem with you being her "aunt" but i dont know her.
Tell her your intentions if she says no you have to pick him or your friendship.
Yes it harsh but true
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reader, DJ8433  +, writes (30 July 2007):
 If he's not married, then do everything like you would with any other man you date. Tell your best mate when the time is right.
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reader, liveNlearn +, writes (30 July 2007):
 Hmm.. you are in a bit of a hitch here. If you want to keep on seeing him i'd say go for it. Talk to your friend though if you want it to be serious, see if she's ok with you and her uncle going together, if not, then it will be alot harder to go ahead with it if u have to choosse between the 2. best of luck
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