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writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for a while and our past isn't the best, however we have agreed to put that behind us and move on. Lately it hasn't been great I have the feeling that he's cheating and he's been being really mean not wanting to see me saying I'm being too demanding and that I'm always fussing at him and it turns him off and makes him hate me. Im at the point where I am ready to be single but I want to give our relationship. One last try. I don't even no if this guy is cheating on me. I don't no what to do, maybe we just need a break from each other. Please help.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (27 November 2011):
 Yeah, you guys need to chill out and then sit down and talk. See how he's feeling, tell him that you feel like maybe you guys need to take a break from each other - but that you're also willing to give this relationship one last chance if he still really wants it to work.
I'm sorry, but if my fella said that I made him HATE me, that would be a big red flag. That sounds pretty harsh.
So, not knowing anything besides what you've written, I think I'd just go for being single. He sounds shady and a little bit like a jerk. Good luck!!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (22 November 2011):
 I think you need to talk to him about this. To me it sounds like you and him are on different wave lengths. He has pretty much told you he hates your behaviour. So you both need to sit down and talk about this. Ask him does he want to try and work out the issues in your relationship or does he feel it is best to give up. It cannot go on like this so sit him down and talk to him and see what he has to say. Good luck.
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