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writes: Hey everyone, hope you're all having a pleasant evening. My question for you all today is... how do I get a girl from my work to like me? I'm sure the things I'm doing so far are just hindering my chances. So the thing is we have worked together now for almost a year and we have such a good time at work. I text her almost every day and she seems to text back every time. She always has to get the last text it seems. Never anything flirty and I never really flirt with her, just make her laugh. (A lot of 'haha' and 'lmao') The kicker is she goes to college a little ways away and I only work with her one day a week now. I have hinted around about hanging out but she just kind of changes subject when I do. I enjoy talking to her so much and every moment I'm not I'm thinking about her. Should I just cut my interest and accept the fact she just seems to want to be my friend and that's it? Thanks for your time and your opinion!
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reader, xTheAlmightyDuckx  +, writes (4 March 2015):
 No problem :) And just don't lay it on too thick... be smooth :) Sometimes something as small a little compliment can open up a window of opportunities.. you should be able to see how she is feeling when you give these compliments. Women normally give off the right signals as too whether you should stop or not.
Wish you the best either way! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2015): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your response!! She seems to talk to me over anyone that's working. I just don't want to flirt to much and make work awkward. We work in close proximity so it might be hard. I will take your advice to heart, thanks again.
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reader, xTheAlmightyDuckx +, writes (3 March 2015):
You can't really get anyone to like you.. they either do or they don't... what you can do however is see if she may already like you or not :) Which I guess may be just as good.
I have always found my best indicator to see if someone may like me is body language... you say she changes the subject a lot when you mention hanging out.. that could be down to nerves or just because she see's you as a friend. You could start lightly flirting with her and see how she reacts, just throw in a couple of compliments when you see her and she if she seems comfortable with it.
Or if you want, just ask her out on a date! Women love confidence, and the worst thing which could happen is she could say no, so I would go for it if it was you! :)
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