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writes:I'm having a birthday party in the summer and I want to invite this guy that I have liked since the beginning of the school year. He has a girlfriend and they have been going out for a couple of months. I don't think they will be together though over summer. I just started to actually talk with him and I wanna make our relationship turn into friends and then best friends. Is it okay to just invite him to the party and have a good time as "friends" and maybe if things go well tell him how I feel about him? Thank you. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2010): I would invite him to your party and just try to get to know him as friends. He might bring his girlfriend though so if that would bug you I wouldn't invite him. Just get to know him better and don't tell him how you feel until he is single. Also if you invite him make it casual and not seem like a big deal. You could even tell him he can bring his girlfriend so that way he will think you just want to be friends and won't feel weird about it. Just have fun and don't take it to serious. If you guys are meant for each other it will work out and you will hook up.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (8 April 2010):
He has a girlfriend, so realistically this isn't a good idea if you're hoping to make a move on him. He will either bring her, which will prove he's not interested, or he won't bring her and you'll say something and he'll turn you down. I think you can invite him as a friend, but don't expect anything else.
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reader, raiders +, writes (8 April 2010):
 How can you be to sure that this boy and his girlfriend are going to break up. Anyways give him the invite and hopefully he goes to your party with out his girlfriend. It seems like you want him in your life regardless if he is your boyfriend or just a friend. Hopefully he goes to your party gives you big hug, a nice present and enjoys himself celebrating with you, with or without his girlfriend. Happy early birthday! Have fun and be safe!
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (8 April 2010):
 If you are going to invite him chances are he will bring his gf unless you say specifically not to. In that case he will either not go or have to make some excuse as to where he is going that his gf can't come. Your best bet is to just invite him and see if he even asks to bring the gf but if he does you shouldn't really refuse him.
Hopefully he takes your friend it and everything works out so you two can get to kno each other. Good luck.
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