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writes:Hello dear cupic and agony aunt,i have a problem,am 22, my gf is 20. Let me hit d nail on its head! My gf and i were having sex in her place (d girl's room) and her elder sister (who is my age) came in and saw us. Now she wants me to have sex with her too, knowing that am dating her younger sister, she always come to my house insisting, that when she saw us,she wish she was the one! So should i? What if my gf(her sister) finds out. And i dont want to tell my gf, it will cause problem for both of them and the family. I need help please, thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, Dlawube +, writes (15 July 2011):
Dlawube is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks to you all that helped out, i love my gf very much, i cant cheat on her, not even with her elder sister. So i told her what is going on, how her elder sister is trying to make me have sex with her. She was angry as expected and ask her elder sister if it is true, she confirmed it and apologize, saying she was sorry that it will not happen again. Every thing is ok now and every one is happy. Thanks to you all!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2011): No, no, no.
Now, you need to tell your GF also otherwise the sister could cause trouble for you either now or at some point in the future.
If you and your GF are tight enough it won't matter. If you're not, well then that's a different problem again. Either way, the sister is acting badly and in a threatening way to you. You must tell your GF.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (12 July 2011):
 "So should i?"
No.
"What if my gf(her sister) finds out."
Well, if you don't sleep with her sister, there's nothing to find out. If you do sleep with her sister, then how do you think she'd feel? Generally, people dislike having their boy/girl friend sleep with a sibling. It kind of shows a lack of boundaries and a lack of basic common sense.
"And i dont want to tell my gf, it will cause problem for both of them and the family."
All the more reason to say 'no' and mean it.
"no"
"no"
"no"
"no"
Practice the word. It may come in handy.
"no"
"no, not interested"
"no, I will not"
"no"
"NO!"
Now you try.
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reader, svf  +, writes (12 July 2011):
 I can't believe you have to even ask this question! What about morals and personal principles... Try this, imagine if you had a brother and he did this to you, how would you feel? Your hurt feelings (imagine it) should be your answer. Don't do it. If you feel that you cannot live without having sex with your girlfriends older sister, then BREAK it off with your girlfriend FIRST. And WAIT a few months. But don't expect it to work out, as certain family members are going to be seriously pissed off. Is it really worth the lust? Only you can be the judge.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (11 July 2011):
 You even have to ask this question? Should you break your girlfriend's heart? Should you destroy a family by facilitating an older sister to betray her younger sister just so you can have a cheap orgasm? This is how families get destroyed.
You look the older sister dead in the eyes, tell her no, it will never happen, and if she ever approaches you again, you will tell her sister. That stops the advances and gives the proper warning.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (11 July 2011):
 You don't need help, you just need a very cold shower, maybe that would help you think clearly. You know this sister/sister thing is bound to blow up in your face so don't even go there Buddy.
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