A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Dear cupid i really need some help. Im 17 i was with my ex for about two years. Hes cheated on me twice of what i know of and almost got her pregnant. Hes verbaly and emotionaly abused me. So two or three weeks ago my bestfriend and this wonderful guy i met talked some sence into me that i shouldnt put up with it any more i was crying that night because my boyfriend was saying it would be better if i never existed. I put up with it for so long because i truely did love him and dint want to hurt him even though he did me several times. So with those two people help i was able to break up with him. It was extremly hard but i knew it was best for the both of us. Now im dating that guy i met who helped me through it he treats me so much better and is so caring and nice i love talking and being around him. Problem is my ex still wants me back and says hes changed i dont want to get back with him because i am happy with this new guy. But some how even though im not with my ex he still manages to hurt me? We decided on being friends because he was a big part of my life for along time. But when ever he texts me i get sad and feel like crying. I know i want to be with this new guy and i know i dont want to get back with my ex. So why is it when im really happy all he has to do is text me and i get sad? Sorry for it being long thank you for any help or input.
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reader, Lucky786  +, writes (11 July 2011):
 I think you moved on to this new guy too quickly without properly dealing with your feelings for your ex. You say you truly loved him and he treated you bad. I think you still have unresolved feelings for him and until you deal with them you won't be able to move on. Also I think you should leave off being friends with your ex for a while too.
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