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*RAZY INLOVE
writes:im so lonely this day i dont know what to do im so undecided i know i love my bf but my mind tells its over he always treat me in a wrong way i dont know what to do i love him so much im scared of lossing him but as the days go by our relationship bacame more disaster im always crying were alawys fighting he dont know to if he really loves me or he needs me i dont know plss give me advice what can i do let go or stay in that relationship what is the right thing to choose my heart says or my mind says??????crazy inlove Reply to this Question
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reader, CRAZY INLOVE +, writes (27 August 2010):
CRAZY INLOVE is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for youre nice and meaningful answer you make me feel comfortable im just hoping i can do that easily ....
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reader, Oregongrl1  +, writes (27 August 2010):
Aw im sorry it's truly a hard and difficult decision! loving someone who doesn't love you the same way and you feel like you are losing that person? and it is probably because you are. but it is the letting go and rejection that you are dealing with. your heart says stay but what does your head tell you? why don't you think of it this way maybe you 2 can do a seperation and stick to it. then maybe he will realize how much he loves you and if he doesn't come back then you will know! but you need to stay strong and stand your ground and be proud of who you are and keep your self respect and you will see how strong that will make you! you really don't have much of a choice at this point, to try and hang on to someone who is not totally w/ you in this relationship! and you are making yourself nuts? but please know this there is a man who is out there for you who will love you the same way as you do him and you will walk hand in hand you just need to give yourself time and believe in you. my advice would to be move on.... and right around the corner your knight is waiting.
Best Wishes!!
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reader, pringles  +, writes (27 August 2010):
I think that you need to weigh up what it is worth. Have you tried talking it over with him? If he doesn't know its hurting you then maybe you should let him know.
In saying this though you need to think of yourself. If you're having doubts then I think you need to tell that to him. If he is willing then maybe you should both seek help together. If he isn't then I think you know what it is worth in the relationship...
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (27 August 2010):
 I beleive that you should go with your mind because right now it is working to get your heart to realize that he is wrong for you. The two never really agree but the mind is logical and can see past the love that only you are putting into the relationship and show you that you are better off without him. Don't force the decision but in the end the mind should win and the heart will follow.
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