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writes:I have liked this guy since I first moved to my new School and we are both in the same year and even both take geography. I really want to try and ask him out but I'm not sure if he is gay. Now I maybe being a bit stereotypical but he seems very gay by the fact he hangs round with only girls and the way he dresses and I did ask a friend of his whether he was gay and she said she didn't know but she thought he was.However I have read some of his twitter stuff and he seems to get really annoyed when anyone asks him if he is gay. I'm afraid of upsetting him if he thinks that everyone thinks he's gay - even if he is not sure himself.Should I go for it and risk his feelings or should I just stay back? Reply to this Question
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reader, AvgGuy1  +, writes (9 February 2010):
WHOA! Slow down. Sounds like you BARELY know the guy. I definitely don't think you should go asking him out. That might freak him out just as much as asking if he's gay. FIRST, get to know him. Find something that he likes to do. What kinds of movies he likes to watch etc. THEN ask him if he wants to go to the mall, or play video games at your place, or go watch a movie or whatever it is that interests him. Over time, If he starts having feelings for you, then you probably won't HAVE to ask him the question.
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reader, girl from bristol +, writes (2 February 2010):
hi you should ask him out as he may not be gay he would get upset if he is getting asked and he is not dont judge a book by its cover and if he is gay then you may have a good friend
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reader, Keyshantasy  +, writes (2 February 2010):
 Okay you sound so nice-And I am sure you have heard that saying: DON'T JUDGE A BOOK BY IT'S COVER. And never ever ever ask anyone else about someone else because that will just give them thier opinion which leads to the other saying: DON'T TRUST ANYONE'S INFORMATION BUT YOUR OWN. So if you like this guy and you want to ask him out the first thing you do is ask him out-definitely not-SO IF YOUR NOT GAY WANT TO GO TO THE MOVIES-LOL! I would definitely ask him out but not the other question----FIRST. And who knows even if he is gay he might turn out to be a really good friend. hope this helps;~}
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