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writes:well it's simple. I asked my ex out and i'm not sure if she's interested. Ok my ex broke up with my 6 months ago as of February 5th. yesterday I asked her to go to the movies with me this weekend. At first she said yes, but at the end of the school day IO asked her again just to be sure she wanted go. She Said she may have to to Virginia to see her cousin. I think she's lying but she might not be, she does go to Virginia a lot. You see her mom takes care of her cousins child for about 2 weeks every other month or so and the child live in Virginia, so they may be going to pick him up or take him back. It was a strange thing for me to do because I just didn't plan on doing it. It just slipped out. I was at lunch sitting with my friend and his girlfriend, when my ex came in looking for some guy, I told her he went to the restroom and then she sat down beside me and started a conversation with me. It was the most we've talked since we broke up. And eventually I asked if she was single, she said yes, and I said "you wanna see a movie this weekend" So I just wanna know if she's interested and If I should try to pursue this further and go to the movies another time, of If I should just leave things alone?
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (4 February 2010):
 If you've already started plans with the new girl. See what happens and be with her, she deserves that chance. Your last gf dumped you, so it ended right there, if you go for her again, some day she may dump you for the same stupid reason or similar. let your ex know that you still like her but just let her know you need some time because you thought she did not like you so you asked someone else out and just want to see how that goes.
I bet the ex, she starts chasing you harder! lol.
Good luck.
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reader, Trans Am Man +, writes (3 February 2010):
Trans Am Man is verified as being by the original poster of the question well, I recently found out from some of her friends that she was actually pretty happy that I asked her out and I'm stating to believe that she may be telling the truth about going to Virginia. That being said I'm in a pickle now. Thinking that she wasn't interested I asked another girl out and she said yes. Now I have plans with this girl and I'm not sure what I should do.
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reader, Griffo +, writes (2 February 2010):
your ex is an ex for a reason. i see no future there. if you do start again the same shit will happen again
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reader, Trans Am Man +, writes (2 February 2010):
Trans Am Man is verified as being by the original poster of the questionto Denise 32 My plan was to continue the relationship. And it was her who ended it. And she did have a habit of lying
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 February 2010):
Usually ex's are ex's for a reason. She doesn't seem all that interested, but maybe she's taking it slow. If she still doesn't respond about the movie, then leave her alone.
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (2 February 2010):
 I'll begin my response by asking you a question: you and your ex broke up six months ago. I assume (without knowing who initiated the breakup) there were things in your friendship that just weren't working out, and that's wny it ended?So: In inviting her to go see a movie with you, what are you hoping to achieve? Is it just a one-time outing as platonic friends, or do you want to try to resume the relationship? If you do hope to take up with her again, bear in mind that unless you are both able to resolve the issues that caused the split in the first place, those issues will surface again and cause problems.If you want to see her just as a casual friend without expectations, then that might be very different.As for whether she's lying to you about going to Virginia: well, does she have a habit of being (sometimes) untruthful?As to whether she's interested, why not see if she gets in touch with you later on in the week? If not, you call or text or talk to her if you'd like her to see the movie with you.......good luck!
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