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writes:Hello,i wonder if u can help me!!i have been speeking to this Turkish man for about 1 year now, we have got really close , talked everyday spooken on phone, msn, etc!. hes a really nice man with a wonderful personality, and also he lives no where near the holiday area's so i feel hes kind of not a cheet but i dunno ahh ? haa, anyway we started get closer and closer the past couple of months and we eventully met in april 09, he was the nicest guy you could ever meet, his family paid for me to go over and everything, he traveld 12 hours just to see me for 2 weeks, i wnet back in may and he came again, soo couple of weeks ago we spooke on msn and he said he has strong feelings for me and would love to take our frendship further, he also said he loves and cares about me alot! now theres a couple of things im not sure about, i was on his webpage and he has wrote lots of stuff about me on it, but also has lots of girls on it he had one girl who kept saying she loved him etc, i asked him about it and he replyed " we are just friends dont u trust me?" and he also told me he had never had a gf before and was a virgin, and he said being with me made him happy and would like to share that special moment with me, it sounds right crazy i know and you probs all thinking hes a turk get a life lol! but theres something about this boy =), hes not one of these bartinders that go with all the girls(i hope) hes curently studying at univercity! please help me,do u think i should go ahead and see what happends with this relisonship, or forget about it? all your help would be very nicee, thanks xsammi x
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reader, noonespecial2  +, writes (7 August 2009):
Hi there,
I would trust your sense on this one.
You have a hunch that something is not right.
This doesn't mean end it or never see him again, it means slow down, go lots slower, keep checking him out as you have been and if there is something untrustworthy about him, it will be revealed soon enough.
You haven't said whether you've had sex with him yet. If you haven't, I'd hold off on that too because when you have sex with him, it seems to blind you somewhat and takes you into a romance mindset which stops you from keeping a good perspective.
He may be fine, yet I would believe in your gut feeling and just take your time as you may save yourself a lot of hurt.
Good luck
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