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anonymous
writes:Hi everyone, hope you can help me out!Im 17 (today =]), and have a 28 year old guy who is 'after' me. It all started out with facebook emails. He would tell me how beautiful, amazing and gorgeous i am, all the normal chat up lines i suppose. He would text me all the time, too. But the other day, he just stopped. His email was really short, without much written, compared to normal anyway. After that, i didnt hear from him for about three days. Even though i text and emailed him. My cousin, who is also friends with him, but doesnt know whats been going on (as she would kill him) said "oh hes found a new girlfriend" so i was like okay then. But then he emailed me that same evening, saying sorry he hadnt replied any of my messages, he had a lot of stuff going on, but he would still love to see me. so i replied, but surprise suprise he didnt get back. or to the other two texts i sent .. Whats going on with him?Why has he suddenly stopped emailing me? If he had lost interest, why did he send me that email last night saying he'd love to see me?Hopefully someone can help me out, im a bit confused!! Thanks all x
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2009): Just because he's got someone else, there is nothing to prevent him from lying to you and try to get you in the sack behind her back.
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reader, Charlpop +, writes (4 August 2009):
 First of all, happy birthday! =)
I'm sorry to say this but I think this guy was just leading you on, and possibly only wanted you for one thing [I wonder what that could be! Lol] and if you didn't reciprocate, maybe he decided it wasn't worth the effort.
Also, I know age isn't a main concern in a lot of relationships, but you have to keep in mind he is 11+ years older than you, so he might be looking for younger girls just to fool around with.
If he continues making excuses and not e-mailing you back, just do the same. And remember, if he does have a girlfriend, and he's e-mailing you these things, he's being unfaithful to her, so he might be unfaithful to you.
Hope this helps!
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