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writes: Ok I am thinking of getting back with my ex. We broke up cause he went travelling round the world. I knew he had this planned when we got together and we didn't mean for things to get serious but they did. We were together about 6 months before he went and we had an amazing relationship. I was not in a position to go with him due to my job situation. Now he is back and we are both single and we have become very close again. We get on as well as we ever did. I may want to get back with him but my only worry is he seems to have broken up with most women he has ever been out with (they have been long relationships)so I don't want to feel really hurt again. Should I give him a chance again? he makes me laugh and I can be myself with him.
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reader, imogen1068  +, writes (16 November 2009):
 best thing to do is listen to your heart, if you really want to give it another try then why not. you say you can be yourself with him and you sound like your happy with him so yeah i would say give it another go and see how it all works out. good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2009): hmmmm... go for it... but take it easy...
just take it slow as you said he has a histoery of breaking up with most women he was ever with... so take it easy make sure he really serious about it... dont just throw yourself on him.. and dont be to strong...
just let it follow by being close and see where that will take you... if he is worthy of you and he is really what you know of him and he still has somthing for you it will work... if not then you wont be hurt...
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2009): Totally go for it. If he is a good person as you remembered him before his trip, then I am sure he is worth it.
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reader, dealwithit101  +, writes (16 November 2009):
GO for it. Yah gotta take a chance.
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reader, BlueBag +, writes (16 November 2009):
 If everything is the same as before he left then why not give it another go? It's not like the relationship broke down because one party was cheating on the other. You both knew it would have to end. You have a chance to pick up where you left off!
If you spend your life worrying about whether a relationship is going to break up before it starts then you'll never feel comfortable in any relationship.
Relax and go with the flow. You may regret it if you don't. :)
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