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writes:Hi, i've been with my girlfriend for 9months now and i love her to pieces and would do anything for her. Recently she said that the spark wasn't there as much as it used to be but theres nothing to worry about and she loves me very much. I live away at university and come and see her every fortnight at the weekends and try and think of interesting things to excite her. I've sent her a red rose and we have really nice plans for Christmas. I just feel like she isn't as committed as i am. I feel like i'm making the majority of the effort and when i'm with her she doesn't really appreciate the time we have together. I'm also quite scared of talking to her about it because i don't want her to realise that we may not have a future together when i love her so much and don't want her to leave me. I know she loves me and cares for me but i just need a way to light the fire again. I was considering talking to her about it and not seeing her until Christmas, which would be our longest break apart to see if when i come back, hopefully that time would realise how much we miss each other when we're apart, do you think this is a good idea and if not any other ideas?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2009): as i find out today she kissed another guy a month ago, screw the world, hello alcohol, night all
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2009): take it easy... if she says she loves you and you believe her... then just calm down... dont be to pushing trying hard... because when you doing anything while you trying very hard somehow the other side just feel it... and as much as i know you are doing everything from your heart because you love her so much. just relax... and find out what she really makes her excited not what you think will make her excited and smile, and sending a rose is not the the romantic exciting thing for all women...
just relax and dont worry too much.. if you really want to take a break, then dont say anything to her yet, just get a good excuse that wont upset her, so there will be no pressure on both of you next time you see eachother and you would really miss each other... and if she gets upset then mate get on your horse and run to her with out telling her you are coming... ;)
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