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writes: So in the begining of our relationship he cheated but i didnt find this out until he moved 6 months into our relationship and he hasnt cheated since then. He moved back for me and eventually had to move away again for money issues.weve now been together over a year. We had broken up a week before he moved the second time and the day before he left he had a hickey on his neck. He says after we both do what we have to do we will come together. were still young . should i get over him or see if things will work out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2006): this guy obviously has a problem with commitment and he wants to go out and have ''fun''. He is basically asking you to wait for him to come back and you could be waiting a long time! he may move on and so might you. go out and find someone better! good luck!
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reader, Tine  +, writes (13 September 2006):
 what does he mean by "when you both do what you have to do"??? what is this that you both have to do?
you both have been breaking up and getting back together so many times, i feel that you both are very confused about what you want. If you break up then stick by your decision and stay apart. If you decide to stay together then work hard at teh realtionship so that you stay together otherwise you'll be doing this the rest of ur life and its not what you should be getting.
The fact that he had a hickey on his neck the day before he left you shows what respect he has for you. He realises that when you both break up that eventually you will get back together and he is even going to the extremes of going with other girls - that is a bit harsh.
I say break up and stick by your decision. Move onwards and up wards. You dont need this at all. As you say you are young and if this is the way the relationship has been going then it will stay the same.
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reader, Toohonesty +, writes (13 September 2006):
You hear it over and over again, do you trust him? Depending on the answer you can make your decission. A year is a long time but the problem with cheats if they think they can get away with it they'll do it again. You are probably insecure, checking up on him and your bond between each other is broken, two things ive got to ask are you in love? Can you have a stable relationship with each other where you can bring a child up, because remember accidents can happen!
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