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writes:Should I get involved with a guy who has another women pregnant? Hi I started hanging out with a guy and we really hit it off it's only been a week and 2 days but I really like him and he makes me laugh. The only thing is he told me that he has a women pregnant. He said he wanted to tell me the truth and that he really liked me and didn't want things to change between us that he wanted to take our relationship to the next level. He also said that he has never felt this way about a women before and thinks I am " the one". This was a little scarey cause thou I like him too I feel it's way too soon for him to say i'm the one. He also admitted to me he has been a playboy his whole life and was finally ready to settle down with the right person. Should I believe this guy ? Dose anyone else think this is a little wierd? I mean he is going to have a baby in a couple months with a women he claims he never dated he just used her for sex thats not a good quality ! Anyways I have still been hanging out with him but I told him that we should take it slow. Maybe I should just back off completely. Not sure what to do? when i'm around him I enjoy it but when i'm away from him the fact he has another women pregnant bothers me. I feel like i'm taking him away from another women or something I feel awful. what should I do ? Do you think its possible it could work out or am I just dreaming ? thanx Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (1 April 2010):
He has told you everything you want to hear. He's said he's a reformed player, he's said he's got another woman pregnant, and he's already said you're the 'one'. I bet you he said nearly all those things to that other woman as well. You're walking into a mess and you'll end up like the other women he has hurt and left.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (1 April 2010):
 He probably told that pregnant woman the same thing . He is just a player and comes with a lot of baggage.
Don't go looking for heartaches.
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