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He said I could surprise him, what is he expecting and how do I surprise him?

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Question - (1 April 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 2 April 2010)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I like this guy, he likes me too, he's a virgin and a little shy. he knows i want to sleep with him. but he is i dunno, afraid?

on the phone one night, i asked him if i could kiss him, and he said, yes, and i could do more, like Surprise him, what does that mean?

how do i surprise him? what is he expecting?

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A male reader, The Realist Canada +, writes (2 April 2010):

The Realist agony auntIt sounds like he may want to become sexual with you but is too nervous to take control of the situation. If you just surprise him and tell him what to do he will get the experience without worrying about what he should be doing. So if you want to he gave you the ok to open up his sexual world and if you are comfortable with it then it may boost his confidence to make take more control in the future.

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