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writes: I have a major problem...well, maybe it's not as major as other people's but there's a guy that's constantly on my mind and I want to talk to him but he lives 4 and 1/2 hours away and I haven't talked to him in almost 2 years. I can't stop thinking about him and I don't know why we lost touch.I thought there was something between us...What do you think? Reply to this Question
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reader, StonePrincess +, writes (11 August 2005):
 I have to agree with Helen05 sometimes and most always fantasy is better than reality.
I once like a guy for fours years and finally got with the guy whom I thought was all I ever wanted and everything I fantasized about, but he turned out to be a player and was unmerciful about it. I t ripped out my heart and acts like it was my fault that we didn't get along, and that there's nothing wrong after he played me, and three others.
The truth is if you don't find out you might always wonder, but more then likly there is someone much better standing closer to you and God placed you near them and not the other most likly for a reason.
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reader, Helen05 +, writes (10 August 2005):
Sometimes fantasy is better than reality. The one that got away is always more exciting than the one that you got to know warts and all. Drop him a line as a friend and get chatting, but don't expect too much at first - he may not have been thinking the same as you all this time. Redidscover your friendship and who knows what might come along.
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reader, Helen05 +, writes (10 August 2005):
Sometimes fantasy is better than reality. The one that got away is always more exciting than the one that you got to know warts and all. Drop him a line as a friend and get chatting, but don't expect too much at first - he may not have been thinking the same as you all this time. Redidscover your friendship and who knows what might come along.
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reader, carli +, writes (10 August 2005):
you have to think long and hard how you gradually lost contact that should give you an anwser! for example if you think back and you were calling him and he was nice enough to you but never called YOU to chat or see how you were. if he did call you, was he interested and did you feel his genuine care for your well being. sometimes when were lonely we use are memory to remember good times but this memory also is part of our imagination and we can remember things a lot worst or much better than they really are. there is no problem calling this guy but whats wrong with all the other guys that live nearer. ask yourself if wouldn't it be better that you found someone to like nearer to you because you deserve it and deserve happiness. cal the guy to say hi by all means but ask yourself why you yern for him is it him or the thought of being with a man you like
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2005): I don't see why you can't contact him just to say hi. But be prepared-he could be in a relationship already. If he is then 'leave it at' and move on with your life. He's on your mind because you are very curious to see what he's up to. I would suggest you give him a quick call...and feel out the situation. You will know within the first few minutes of calling him whether or not you two may still have that spark. Take the risk and have fun! You only live once. Good luck and I hope it works out for you.
Hugs, Irish
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