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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Basically I've been seeing this guy for a couple of months we got on really well he was completely charming and it felt like we had known each other for years we got on so well. Then one time when we were out we were getting on amazingly, he said when he talks to me its like talking to his best friend, but at the end of the night he turned around and said he didn't want to see me any more, I asked for an explanation and it took 5 hours of talking for him to admit he didn't know what he wanted and that he was scared. Then he left without saying goodbye and I haven't seen him since, that was one week ago...should I just forget I ever met him? As I'm convinced he's not telling me the entire story!
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reader, no nonsense Aidan +, writes (13 July 2012):
Perhaps he’s not telling you the full truth, but what evidence do you have about that? In any case, he’s ended things so it’s all irrelevant now. Should you forget he ever existed? You can’t make yourself forget things because you’d like to, but you should accept that it didn’t work out and move on with your life.
I wish you all the very best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2012): There's probably not much you can do honestly. He only wants to tell you as much or little as he wants to, and if you text, phone him etc, you're only likely to push him further away.
Just wait to see if he contacts you, and if he doesn't, at least you know he wasn't worth your time and you can get on with your life with minimal grief involved.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2012): To be honest, if he has had that sudden change of heart I think it'e best to forget this one. There's no point hunting him down for an answer he evidently ran scared, maybe he's afraid of commitment or had some incident in the past that affected him? Either way let it go. He's not worth it, there are other fish in the sea and this one obviously can't take the heat. You'll be fine. xoxox trust me!
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