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writes: Is it a good idea to get into a relationship with a friend who you have known for a few years but have always liked more since you met them? Reply to this Question
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reader, Helen05 +, writes (10 August 2005):
I can't answer this without more info! Does your friend feel the same? have they made their feelings clear?
I think the only way that the friends into lovers thing works is that you both feel the same and you have realistic expectations of each other -they may be a great friend but what kind of lover would they make?
How much time do you spend together before you make each other crazy?
Most importantly i would urge you to be entirely sure of your feelings before entering this relationship. you need to be sure you will have something very special before you risk your friendship.
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reader, carli +, writes (10 August 2005):
the anwser is YES YES YES, the foundation for a good realationship is friendship. also if you don't get together with your friend of the opposite sex your future partner probadly won't like you hanging out with them all the time especially if you want an honest realationship and might say you had feelings for this person. you will end up seeing each other less and less. so you may as well give it a shot as you don't want to be old and ever say WHAT IF? imagian that!
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