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female
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anonymous
writes:"OP Own Title" I have had this bf for almost 2 years and we recently broke up because he has a very bad temper and likes to verbally abuse me when we argue. I am sweet and tend to be too forgiving but I tried giving him another chance and he came over to watch movies at my house,Well we got into a huge fight over something stupid and he said that our relationship sucks and that i make him unhappy and that I should kill myself. I called him a dick and he head butted me.I was crying because my sister killed herself and i told him how could he say such a thing to me. I made him leave and he text me rite away that he didnt mean anything he said and that he was just mad. I just cut off all contact because i dont think that anyone should have said that kind of shit mad or not. Do you think I did the right thing? He said I am crazy because I wont talk to him again. Am I being too harsh? Or am I right to let him go?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2010):
What a poor excuse for a human being, run and don't look back. The man is a pig.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2010): couldn't agree more w/caring guy. You deserve to be treated with love and respect. We all do. This guy sounds dangerous and so damaging to your well-being in general. I know it hurts, it's hard, and you are questioning yourself because you have a generous soul. Share it with someone who deserves it. Best to you.
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reader, raiders +, writes (5 August 2010):
 Move on sweetie, don't put up with this abuse. You finally said enough is enough, be strong on your word and don't look back. You have to be strong and think on you have love for yourself and respect your life. This man is not worth it and why would you even consider giving him a second chance. The only man worth giving a second chance to are those that love us, respect us, treat us good, a guy who is abusive does not fall in this category, please move on. There are man out there that are caring those are the ones worth keeping, and like I always say leave the trash where it belong in the trash can, not worth picking up.
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reader, cocoqueen88 +, writes (5 August 2010):
 cut him off completely... no question about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2010): I've never heard of someone cutting contact with an abuser and claimed it was a mistake. One hundred percent of victims say they were right to cut off their abuser.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (5 August 2010):
Yes. Never speak to this man again. The problem with being nice and forgiving, is that you all too often see the good and never the bad. This guy is just appalling. Just appalling. And you can do so much better than a man who basically takes pleasure in hurting you mentally and physically. Never speak to him again. If you have the nerve, report him for the abuse.
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