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No longer in love with him

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Question - (5 August 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 August 2010)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

"OP Own Title" I thought I loved him but I don't. I enjoy his friendship and company...even the sex but how do I go from saying "I love you" to not saying it at all without crushing him. He's very sensitive?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2010):

Well ok first there is a different between being in love and loving someone. When you love someone you don't look at how he dresses or how he looks in general, you love him because he treats you well and you can't live without him. Being in love is having the spark there and getting the chills when you see him and feeling good. It is important to be in love and to love the person you are with. It sounds like you have never loved this guy and now you are falling out of love with him. Just tell him how you feel, tell him that you just want him as a friend and that you're feelings have changed. He will get hurt but in the long run it's what's best for the both of you, I mean would you like to be with someone who feels about you the way you feel about him? I don't think so. Do the right think

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A female reader, cocoqueen88 United States +, writes (5 August 2010):

cocoqueen88 agony auntJust tell him the truth. no need in wastin his time telling him you love him when you really don't.

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