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writes:I'm not one to constantly seek being in a relationship and my past (and only) three relationships have resulted in heart ache purely for me.That being said I have an air of being promiscuous (a misconception) due to my large amount of gentleman friends and courters.I just came back from a 5 week holiday and the month before that I was dating someone that I really like. I had dinner with him again and after sex I asked him if he liked me and we both discussed our mutual feelings but no real relationship was set in stone.The condoms we used were special ones I had bought on holiday, Japanese 0.02mm polyurethane ones that felt like nothing and after I left instead of putting the two boxes (one unopened) I had back in my bag he put them on his bedside table.Now, I trust this guy, he's really lovely and unlike all the other unfortunate men I have met.So I am paranoid about something:Did he take the condoms to solidify some sort of monogamy or because he doesn't trust me?Or is he going to use their wonderfulness to bang someone else!?Should I count the packets inside the box the next time I see him!?AM I BEING PARANOID!?I really don't want to discuss this with him, he's 5 years older than me and might find all of this a bit childish.I'm sure it doesn't matter but he's 24 and South Korean on a working holiday visa and I'm a 19 year old Taiwanese/British Australian citizen.
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reader, Griffo +, writes (12 February 2010):
 Yeah, go for it. But even if the numbers are out of wack he will just say he gave them to a mate to try.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (11 February 2010):
You are being very paranoid. Apart from anything else, you're not in a relationship with him, so even if he was seeing someone else, it's not cheating. It's more likely he took them so he can keep them in case you meet up again. Address your own feelings of esteem, because this is something that could seriously get out of control. You have no reason at all not to trust him.
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