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*ackassjknapp
writes:my ex broke up with me about 4 months ago and i still cant get over her. heres a little history about us. we where together for 4 years. she cheated on me 3 times and broke up with me a few times cause her parents made her. i left her once to be with another girl and that was a huge mistake so i went back to my ex. i dont know what it is but when i'm with her i feel complete, happy and just overall great even though all thats happened. all my friends tell me to move on but as hard as i try it's just not working. Since we've broke up shes tried to say she's with a new guy but i believe shes just saying that to make me jealous. i was wondering if anyone could offer me some outside advice on if i should chase her or of a way to get over her?
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reader, jackassjknapp +, writes (31 August 2008):
jackassjknapp is verified as being by the original poster of the questioneveryone says i should just get over her and it's probably for the better be she was perfect! she was beautiful, could sing, cook, funny, hard working, and much more. i don't think i could find anyone like her again. I have been thinking so hard weather or not i should talk to her and if i do what to say. any suggestions?
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (31 August 2008):
 I know it's hard but you have to let her go.
Although you love her and feel comfortable with her, if she cheated on you 3x..that means she does not respect you and love you. And why do you want to waste precious time who won't appreciate you? Try not to think about her by thinking about the bad times and how she hurt you. because getting back together will only cause more pain for you.
good luck
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reader, shiraz  +, writes (30 August 2008):
hiyah, this is a hard time for you put you need to handle it and be the stronger person. im not going to tell you its all going to be ok because it will take time and it will feel worse at some points and better at others. you can love somebody so much you feel they can do no wrong, but hun she blantently has and its not at all bothered her at how its affected you.Shes cheated on you 3 times already proving she has got so used to you taking her back she just uses you, this it not fair for anybody to be treated but for her to go and and say shes with another guy, thats her way of telling you its over until shes decided she wants you back. Please see this because you are wasting your love on somebody who doesnt deserve it and has no intentions ov returning it.
Let her do her own thing and you try and move on with your life and at some point it will hit her, she let the good one go. i know it will be hard but eventually it will get better and you will find love with somebody who gives it back and that is the best feeling of all. if you carry on this longing for her it wil take bits of you away until your no longer the person you were and i know i sound like some wise old person with my words of wisdom but i can say all this and it still not make a difference its only you that can let go, even if you dont want to at the end it will be the best thing you ever did, good luck xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2008): Hii. I think u shud start a random convo wiv her just sayin like hi how r u me stuff like dat. She will cme bk dont worry hunni x x x
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