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writes:kk i need help on this one!!i started seeing this guys during the summer, we slept together and he kept telling me how much he liked me and all... at first i didnt reply to his comments but after a while i started to get attached and told him that i liked him too. after i started opening up he began to get distant, i havent had any news from him for the past 2 weeks. i tried texting him but he didnt even reply to my text... should i call him or give him some space?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2007): If i was you i would give him another couple of weeks, if you havent heard from him then move on. Life is too short and if he has got cold feet then let them freeze.
take care and dont run after him.
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (22 November 2007):
If he means so much to you,make an extra effort to find out what's on his mind and if he continues acting up,let him be for a while.I think he's trying to make you feel just like you are feeling right now,he may feel successful.I know it'll keep on bothering you if he keeps quite but do what you can before giving up.It could also be a sign that he's not serious about you.I always feel that sometimes you women easily and quickly give in to sex.What if you realise he got what he wanted,how would you feel?
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reader, pgissyd  +, writes (22 November 2007):
 Give him some space, I suspect he was using emotion to reel you in, but now he has you he doesnt know what to do. maybe a commitment issue.
Text him once saying your going to give him a few weeks space to work out what he wants from your relationship. then dont contact him at all for two weeks minimum.
When you contact him again afte this break, tell him you ned to talk and will he meet you somewhere, Somewhere public but where you can talk priveratly is usually best for guys.
When you meet up with him, ask him what he wants from the relationship, just that one question, nothing else. then wait and listen.
If he doesnt want to meet you, then Honestly the relationship is over, you would have to accept you were a fling/challenge thats no longer fun. You would have to move on and put him into the lifes lessons box.
However if he does meet you, and tells you what he wants or doesnt want, then you can work it all out between the two of you during that talk.
I have to say hough, My own opion mind you, that it doesnt look promising. Im sorry hunny.
Take care and good luck ok xxxxxx
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