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writes:Hi. I'm a little confused.I understand that it varies, but how often do guys, on average, get girlfriends? I've only ever had one, and I got her when I was 16. She split up with me a few months ago. I'm 19 now, and I can't say that I know that anybody is interested in me.I wonder how long it usually takes to find love after first love? In the few months, it has been very hard, but I think I'm getting to the stage where I'm over it. But how long should I expect it to take before I meet another girl. I miss having a girlfriend very much. Help.
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reader, TheresaUNIQUEbebe  +, writes (22 November 2007):
 Only time can tell but I would say let it come to you instead of finding it, relationship do take alot out of you but its all about the first touch the first kiss late night phone calls or sweaty palms when you see them face to face. What you do need to do is except being by yourself, you dont need someone or a girlfriend to make you happy, you can do that all by yourself, what you need is someone that understand you on levels no one can and understands you, and is willing to learn mistakes with each other and be there when someone falls to pick them up and say ITS OKAY... You have me here with you.LOVE IS UNCONDITIONAL BUT DON'T MISTAKE IT FOR SOMEONE THAT TAKES ADVANTAGE OF YOU CAUSE THAT WILL TAKE FOREVER TO FORGET AND YOU WILL BRING THAT IN TO THE NEW RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT KNOWNING THAT YOU DID AND LEARNING BEFORE ITS TO LATE.LOVE AN HARMONYALWAYS TESS
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reader, TomWilkinson +, writes (22 November 2007):
 It all depends on what you're doing about it. A new girl won't just fall on to your lap, get yourself socialising, meeting new people and going new places.
It could take a year, you might have a few girlfriends in a matter of weeks, it's all random, but putting yourself out there is the best way to go. Alternatively, go for the age old way of asking friends if they know of any girls who are single and looking, there are bound to be some out there, you're one fish in a massive pond, happy hunting!
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (22 November 2007):
My friend that's not a question anyone can answer with 100% accuracy.You may meet someone even today or tomorrow.Just be patient and you'll find someone who deserves you.When you put yourself under pressure you'll end up doing something you may regret.Some guys seem to attract girls every now and then while others seem to do so ever so rarely.It's a stage in life.As at now the girls seem not to want you but i can promise you a time will come that so many girls will want you that you'll be confused.So don't worry you'll meet someone soon.Don't make the mistake of dating someone just to get over your 1st love,you'll break someone's heart. All the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2007): I'm sure you're going through hell still. Honestly, you're not ready for a new girlfriend unless you absolutely do not need one. Saying you need one shows you're not emotionally stable, and are in no position to be in a relationship. You should never be entirely dependant on a girl for your happiness - I'm probably a hypocrite saying this, but I know it's true. Become happy with your own life, then let whatever else fall into place. Pick up old hobbies, start new ones, make friends and get an active social life. You feel empty now and you'll need to fill it with something productive. Good luck.
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reader, muffy +, writes (22 November 2007):
 hunney you are only 18-21! you have a whole life in front of you.you shouldnt worry about it.so youve had 1 bad relationship and its your first.so what?now its good that your getting over it but it takes time to get a good relationship.of course your gunna miss sum1 to love you the way your ex did but your getting in2 your party years.dont worry, just go out and party and have fun being single becuase some things take time.everyone is different and special in their own ways so it isnt exactly something you can time.you cant just be told when your gunna have your next gf.therr is no limit.o it could take awhile or a short amount of time but you cant be for sure when your gunna get another gf.ok.just hang in therr youll get another gf but be patient.have fun bein single ;)!
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