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36-40,
*wistyouaround
writes:I have been with my boyfriend, C, under a year and half (which isn't too long term in regards to previous relationships I've had) but whilst we've been together I've been on and off attracted to other guys and have even had a few affairs with other guys. But my problem is, I want to come clean to my boyfriend and tell him the truth and call it a day on our relationship as I'm clearly not happy with him if I keep going to other guys. We do get on really well as people, I love his family and his friends. He has all the pro's of being Mr. Perfect and I've never had any reason to feel jealous over him, etc so I don't know why I keep going to other guys.I recently started seeing this guy I have known since high school, we'll call him M and I have always had a massive attraction to. I started seeing him a few weeks ago and hanging out regularly, nothing romantic but then the other week we kissed. He came over to my flat last night, we were kissing and he asked me if I was seeing someone and I said yes. I hadn't brought up my boyfriend with the fear he may lose interest (which he did after he found out). He said he didn't want to see me if I was involved with someone else which is understandable and left. I was a little embarrassed and confused about where I was with my own boyfriend and decided to try and end things with C as I feel like I have feelings for M but not serious ones.I've been accepted for University in a different city and I am planning on taking up that offer and that's another factor, which makes me think I'd like to be single if I left my hometown. I just don't know what the best option is!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (30 March 2010):
Please end it. If you're cheating this much, no way is he the one, and it's unfair to keep him around when there is another girl out there who will love him. Focus on your own life and let him go.
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