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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Ok when you read this you may think this guys a player but in fact hes not. He's a bit weird with how he deals with things but hes a nice guy, a good person, never had a gf, funny, slightly big headed but yano its all why i love him.its just recently when we've been out thinga have happened that really would suggest he wants me. Holding my hand cuddling me, having his hands on my bum etc. However the big downfall is we;ve never spoken to well. hes fine with everyone else but struggles with me. He's always acted like he really likes me but never admitted it. Even people that have seen us togethejr recently thinks he likes me that much but hes just too shy. Thing is if he did wouldnt he want to see me? its been quite a while since we saw each other and we ended on a good note last time, minus the whole me being drunk . Ive asked him to come out twice and each time hes blown us out for his mates who hes started seeing very regularly every week. And last time he was saying hes unsure if hes coming, he thought so then at the last minute his mates asked him and he lied to us making an excuse up when he was just going with them. He also hates confrontation and he dont take well to talking about problems but what am i meant to do? I dont want to loose him!He said he'll let me know when he can next come out with us but the way i feel now i think that means i dont wanna come out with you lot. Whats wrong with this guy!!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (30 March 2010):
If he's blowing you off this much, then he's not interested enough to make it worth you going out with him. You say you don't want to lose him? In truth, you've never had him. He just seems to come and go as he pleases. Quit being second best and stop being lied to by a second rate guy.
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