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writes: My b/f did not want to do anything last night. He lives about 30 minutes from me. I dont drive. He says he just feels beat up/tired and doesnt feel like driving anywhere. So we didnt do anything. I feel somewhat suspicious but feel i shouldnt. I called him at 12 and he was just getting up. I spoke to him last night at 9pm and then nothing til i called him the next day. He said he has icecream last night and basically went to sleep. He said he woke up at 5:30 am but went back to sleep. Should i trust more with this situation? Reply to this Question
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (14 January 2007):
 I pretty much agree with "Shania", and I'm just going to reiterate what she said.
If he's given you reasons to be suspicious of him before, perhaps there's something wrong. But geeze, maybe the guy was just kind of tired and didn't feel like going on a half hour car ride. Maybe he did just want a night at home to relax by himself. I love my boyfriend, but somedays I just kind of want to be by myself, and have a "me" day.
Unless he's given you a big reason NOT to trust him, I don't think now is the time to start.
I think you're just fine, darlin'.
xxIndia
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reader, shania  +, writes (14 January 2007):
 Well its hard to say whether he was telling the truth or not but lets presume he was.Why would it be strange if he wanted to have a quiet night in? Does he work? Maybe he was very tired and wasn't up to driving.If you start calling him every so often in one day it will come across as looking too needy and that you rely on him 24/7.Have you had any suspicions before on his behaviour? Does he seem more distant with you? If not...then i dont think you have much to worry about.
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