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He says he doesn't want to date but continues flirting? What do I do?

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Question - (27 October 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 27 October 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

ok I like my guy friend,and have since we were in 8th grade(were in 11th now).he dated my step sis and then after they broke up he told me he loved me.i told him i liked him but didnt want to date because my sis still liked him.

so 2 months later he got a girl friend.i was a little upset but had no claim on him so i didnt do anything.

well they broke up and so i decided i wanted to tell him i liked him.well he ended up at my friends and was going to ask me out but i left before he could.and didnt see him for a few months.then i found out he moved.

a few months later i found him on myspace

and we talked about old times.and both ended up telling each other we liked each other.but he didnt want to go out because it would be long distance.so we didnt.well this year in august i told him i liked him and he said "if he lived here we would be going out."But he didnt want to cause of the long distance thing.we went to the movies and he didnt sit by me so i asked him y and he said it was a test.and then came and sat by me.

but about 3 weeks ago he brought up me liking him and wanting to date him.and he keeps flirting.Im confused,he says he doesnt want to date but continues to flirt and bring up the subject. what should i do?

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A male reader, rugmonkey United States +, writes (27 October 2008):

Be clear:

I would like to date you, and I don't care if it's long distance. If you are not willing to date me long distance, I would appreciate it if you stopped flirting with me. It's really confusing and it's hard for me to get on with my life if I haven't closed this chapter.

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