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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:ok so 7 mounths ago my boyfriend told me to move out because i had cheated on him more then once. said he needed some time to think so i moved out. and not even a week later he has his x moved in and i was like whats going on. well he told me that she just needed a place to stay for a while with her two kids. so ok three weeks ago i call him and he was like where have u been because he wanted me to come home. so i said ok but your x needs to move out so he tells her that she has a mounth. to find some where eles to go. well she didnt like the idea. i told him that i wanted to go to the house so we did and when we got there she was not very happy with that telling me that he loved her and wanted to try and work things out. why would she say that if it wasnt true. what should i do ? should i belive her or him hlep.
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reader, spinnaker +, writes (5 June 2011):
 You better find other pastures to graze in. Regardless of what you did, you do not need to put up with this as a way of penance. Think of all the possible ways this could become REALLLY dramatic and you will see the point.
1 of 3 things are happening with him
1) HE was angry hurt scared and ran to the most familiar place he could for rebound affection - the ex
2) HE was angry hurt scared and was trying to give you a taste of your own medicine, trying to get you jealous and pursue him. Things got a little out of control on his end
3) HE was angry hurt scared to the point where he doesn't care if he is self destructive with his life and irresponsible with his decisions.
If there are any other reasons I am willing to bet a paycheck they are not very healthy ones - and if this is how this guy handles hardship? Well, you don't need me to figure out what kind of life you two will be having.
Remember in relationships just as in everything else, starting from scratch is one of the best blessings - you may wish to consider punching out and moving on.
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