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writes:ok recently i found out that my boyfriend had called the house asking for me and because i wasnt there my sister answered. When i returned home she told me that she had talked to him on the phone. I later found out it was for half an hour. I asked her what they were talking about and she replied nothing much. Should i be suspicious that he is cheating on me with her or am i over reacting? Reply to this Question
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reader, kenny +, writes (21 August 2008):
 to be honest i would not read to much into it, maybe he just thought as it was your sister it might be rude to get off the phone straight away so he tried to make conversation. Also i feel if there was anything to hide you would have been kept in the dark about the whole conversation.
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reader, LonelyButNotAlone  +, writes (21 August 2008):
 Have you noticed this ever happen before?
If this is the only time it's happened, I wouldn't worry about it too much.
If your sister were really trying to steal your boyfriend, I doubt she would have been so upfront about talking with him on the phone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2008): Well... do you trust your sister? Does she care about your feelings? If so i doubt she would ever do anything to upset u. But honestly i made a huge mistake when i was 13 my sisters boyfriend and his mate were saying should i? And yea cuz if u dont i will! I thought whats goin on here because they were looking at me. My sistas boyfriend came up and pashed me. I kissed him back. I totally regretted it and my sis didnt speak to me fo years. We all make mistakes. If ya want sit down and just ask if she cares about you what were they talking about.
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