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Should I be worried about my husband running around with his cousin? He's a known cheater.

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Question - (2 January 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 4 January 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, *adaback writes:

my husband and i have been together for almost 5 years now, we have a 2 year old and another one on the way. i have always had a problem with him running around with his cousin. his cousin is a known cheater, and going through a divorce because of it. my husband has not really had anything to do with him in a long time, but recently a death in the family has brought them together again. am i overreaction about not wanting my husband running around with his cousin?

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A female reader, jadaback United States +, writes (4 January 2009):

jadaback is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thank u all very much for your answers they where a great help and im glad im not the only one that thinks im not overreacting

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A male reader, NITRAM BLUE Philippines +, writes (3 January 2009):

NITRAM BLUE agony auntThe top reason of why husbands cheat their wives, according to some major internet survey, is that they have friends who are cheaters.

I hope that answers your question.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009):

My dad used to tell me: "tell me who youre with and i'll tell you who you are" I was married and used to hang out with my wife's cousin all the time as if i were still single. It caused nothing but unnecessary heartache. He needs to make a responsible adult decision- low life cousin, or loving family? Anybody in their proper mind willing to do the right thing would choose the latter. I truly wish you well...

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009):

No, you're not over reacting. Confront your husband bluntly, and say, WTF?!?! We'd all like to be running around and having fun, but when you marry and have kids, it's not about you anymore. Tell him that. Ask him if he wants to jeopardize his family running around with the creep. Let him know you're on to him, and that he won;t get away with it. Take steps accordingly thereafter.

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