A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Your daughter is a great student! She is tall, beautiful with the sweetest personality." those were the words coming from her history teacher at parent teachers conference. My daughter is a freshman in highschool and all the things he said are true. The teacher is male obviously and quite handsome ill admit hes very young and looks about early 20s. And, whenever my daughter talks sbout him, she gets all nervous and shaky.Now, its the end of the year and a few months ago my daughter randomly switched out of his class. I asked her why and she said it was because the material was too hard. But, she was getting a perfect A! After that, she was getting more sad u know like how u feel after a breakup?Should i be worried? Im a single parent and i had my daughter at such a young age and i havent even gone through life myself! Was she seeing this man? I just cant believe it took me this long to figure it all out. But...maybe i dont have it all figured out. Anyways, please help! Thanks
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reader, based51  +, writes (9 June 2011):
 i can understand your concerns but at the same time all sorts of things could have happened here.
It seems likely from what you've said that your daughter finds this man attractive - pretty normal. There are several reasons why she may have dropped out his class, and it could be any one of the following reasons:
- she found out he has a girlfriend/fiance/wife and is too upset to stay in his class seeing him everyday
- she's a very serious student and she didn't want her crush on him to interfere with her studies
- she became so 'in love,' with him that seeing him but not being able to have him was too painful
-she made an advance on him and was rejected, and became too embarrassed to go on in his class
- HE made an advance on her, scared her, and she dropped out of his class
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reader, MissTellAll +, writes (9 June 2011):
 From her behavior something might be up, but all I can say (and anyone here really) is that you don't know unless you ask her.
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