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writes:dear cupid,Me and my best friend haven't fought for the few years weve been best friends and I mean best friends, like do everything together and tell each other everything but since about christmas we've been fighting none stop.. and I don't know why.. she's started a lot of fights with me for no reasons and I forgave her, I don't know how many times but about 2 weeks ago she said she didn't want 2 be my best friend anymore and then she said she didn't want to be my friend cause she thought it was for the best .. I was so upset about it because she means alot 2 me!! then she started calling me names and wanting to beat me up and slagging me and I dont know why!! There's a lot more to this fight and it's very complicated but I was talking to her on msn a few minutes ago and she said after everything I did for her she took everything out on me and she didn't want to be friends because she thought I deserved better now I think she wants to be friends again and I'm so confused I don't know why she did everything she did and what she wants now.. I don't know what to do because if she does want to be friends again she's hurt me so many times and I know I'll want 2 forgive her even though I said I wouldn't but I don't know what to do and I'm confused. I know all my friends and family will say I'm stupid if I want to be her friend again and you're my last hope .. please I don't know what to do and I'm so confused as you can probably tell from the length of this message and there is much more 2 this fight between me and my best friend but I think this is enough for you 2 answer at the moment..lol neways please help lv unknown xxxx
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reader, nologo  +, writes (4 July 2007):
 There is explanation for this situation.
I see signs of competition between you.
Your best friend cannot cope with her emotions in proper way.
Because of it you got all these fights for no obvious reason.
And if it lasts long, competition will break your friendship.
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