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anonymous
writes: I am a gay teenage boy. I've just recently broken up with my partner and am feeling upset by it. I have liked a friend of mine for a while, and although he is bisexual, he is currently dating another female friend of mine. I don't know if he would want me to try anything with him, but it kills me whenever I think about them being together. What should I do? Please help. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Delila +, writes (3 September 2005):
Its really hard after a break up, dealing with the loss, lonliness and maybe even rejection. It can take some time to heal. One way of healing after a breakup can be seeing someone new, sometimes anyone will do. Give yourself a little time for the dust to settle and then seek out sombody single.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2005): Hell no you shouldn't break up a relationship between two people you alledge are your friends. Futhermore you shouldn't date your friend because it may not work out and you can lose a good friend. Just be patient what is meant to be will be.
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reader, pops +, writes (2 September 2005):
Leave him alone. Unless you want to lose more friends, don't try to interfere with his other relationship. Move on, and find someone else. YOu are being extremely petty in being bothered about his dating a woman. If he is bi-sexual, of course he is going to be attracted to, and date, women! If he had wanted a relationship with you, don't you think he would have let you know by now?
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reader, ***lisa*** +, writes (2 September 2005):
are you sure your not just on the rebound? have you and this guy ever discussed being together? the best thing you can do is get out of any situation for a couple of weeks and then see how you feel after,if you still feel the same then talk to him about it
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2005): I would forget about him and look for another gay person, especially seeing that he's already going out with someone.
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