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writes: I really like this guy but he says he can't commit to anyone at the moment cos he has just gone back to uni. I understand that but I feel kind of used cos when ever he comes home, he is like always asking me to go out and stuff. Then he decides he can't commit. I am confused! Also, I like this other guy too, he says he likes me as well but doesn't want a girlfriend at the moment. I am so annoyed! And this other guy that I hate keeps asking me out and no matter how many times I say no he won't listen! Argh! Help! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Delila +, writes (3 September 2005):
You're crazy about a guy who just wants a casual thing, its so frustrating it makes you want to scream. I would make the most of it when he's around and try dating the other guy you like too, just play it their way and tell them you just want to have some fun at the moment. As for the one who won't go away, well if you have given him some clear messages and he still won't go away, just see him as a member of your growing fan club and smile.
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (2 September 2005):
Always the way! The ones we're interested in don't want us and the ones we don't fancy in that way can't get enough of us! That's just how it works I'm afraid. There are gonna be loads of times you'll like people and they simply can't give you what you want and you'll do the same to other guys. Just chill out and enjoy being single, it's great fun! Just go with the flow and you'll meet someone who wants the same things as you and you can live happily ever after! No promises, but just chill out! Good luck :)
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